Don’t Forget To Honor Basketball’s Greatest Rapist Tonight

We don’t discuss basketball much around these parts, but as I am wont to do from time to time, I’m going to step outside of Baseball and discuss something that’s been on my mind the past few days.  There has been a lot of talk the past few days that tonight brings to us the conclusion of Kobe’s farewell tour as well as his career.  A lot of people are gushing over all of Bryant’s achievements.  The awards he’s won, the championships, the difference he’s made in so many people’s lives.

Of course, what few are actually talking about, and what many seem to have forgotten is Kobe Bryant’s biggest legacy.  You know the one, where Bryant was charged with rape 13 years ago.

In July of 2003 Kobe Bryant was charged with raping a young woman in Eagle, Colorado. The charges against Bryant, were he convicted, would have sent him to jail for a lengthy sentence, up to life in prison, potentially ending his basketball career. Remarkably, Bryant played throughout the 2003-04 basketball season, never missing a game for a team or league suspension relating to the rape charges.

Laker fans never booed Bryant during the season, indeed the first time he appeared on camera after the rape charges were filed, he was cheered wildly. Incredibly, Bryant’s jersey sales surged in the wake of his rape charges, climbing throughout the season as his trial date neared and more and more details leaked into the media.

The rape case was eventually dropped, because Bryant’s accuser refused to testify against Bryant.  Not so coincidentally, Bryant settled a civil lawsuit with his accuser for an undisclosed amount of money.  Kobe offered the following public apology.

“First, I want to apologize directly to the young woman involved in this incident. I want to apologize to her for my behavior that night and for the consequences she has suffered in the past year. Although this year has been incredibly difficult for me personally, I can only imagine the pain she has had to endure. I also want to apologize to her parents and family members, and to my family and friends and supporters, and to the citizens of Eagle, Colorado.

I also want to make it clear that I do not question the motives of this young woman. No money has been paid to this woman. She has agreed that this statement will not be used against me in the civil case. Although I truly believe this encounter between us was consensual, I recognize now that she did not and does not view this incident the same way I did. After months of reviewing discovery, listening to her attorney, and even her testimony in person, I now understand how she feels that she did not consent to this encounter.

I issue this statement today fully aware that while one part of this case ends today, another remains. I understand that the civil case against me will go forward. That part of this case will be decided by and between the parties directly involved in the incident and will no longer be a financial or emotional drain on the citizens of the state of Colorado.”

Bryant repeatedly lied to investigators, claiming first that he did not have sex with the woman, he did not kiss or hug the woman, and that the woman came to his hotel room so that she could show him “where the bears come up to the window.”  When he was caught in the lie, Bryant asked investigators if he could settle the case.  This was before he was actually charged with anything.  Asked why he wanted to settle, Bryant mentioned he didn’t want to have to deal with his wife getting upset.  (That eventually cost Bryant a pretty large diamond ring.)

Police ultimately seized clothing in his hotel room that proved the woman was bleeding during the sex and took Bryant to another location to conduct a rape test on him. He would be charged with rape a few days later.

At one point late in the interview Bryant cuts off an investigator who has commented on the accuser being an attractive young woman.

“She wasn’t that attractive,” Bryant coldly responded.

Again, I’d encourage you to go read the entire 57 page document for yourself. It’s a quick read, but an interesting one. As you read the document ask yourself several questions, what if Kobe Bryant’s rape charges happened today? How much differently would it be treated by media and social media? Would Bryant be allowed to play for the Lakers with his charges pending? Should he be able to play? After apologizing and paying his alleged victim off would Bryant’s image recover as quickly as it has? And here’s a final question for you — as Bryant prepares to play his final game for the Lakers and continues his year long goodbye that has led to rampant and unfiltered adulation across the country, how come no other media outlet is even mentioning his rape charges?

So just keep all of this in mind tonight.  When the media, the fans, and the celebrities all gather to celebrate the career of a once really great basketball player.  When they talk of the 5 NBA titles, Two time Finals MVP, one time NBA MVP.  When they talk of the 18 All-Star games, the scoring championships, the famous jump-shot.  When they talk of his leadership and his locker room presence.  When people get misty eyed and weep over the end of his career.  Remember, that one night in Colorado when everyone is giving Bryant a standing ovation tonight.  And while you are thinking of all that, think of the following statistics.

 

 

Advertisements

9 thoughts on “Don’t Forget To Honor Basketball’s Greatest Rapist Tonight

  1. I don’t even like saying his name. It soured me on NBA basketball for a little while. All it did wqs reinforce the stereotype that a woman is asking for it. You have no idea the arguments I had about this, from people who should know better. I lost a lot of respect for a lot of folks.

    Liked by 2 people

  2. “Smush Parker was the worst. He shouldn’t have been in the NBA but we were too cheap to pay for a point guard. … I was shooting 45 times a game [in 2007]. What was I supposed to do? Pass it into Chris Mihm and Kwame Brown?”

    Kobe wanted to be like MJ so much, he even mimicked MJ’s assholish attitude.

    Like

  3. C’mon scouts, are you saying surprise sex is a bad thing in Colorado? I mean, what with the points and the steals and the dribbling thing and the ALL-TIMES thingy thing that a simple character flaw in a guy that just decimated the NBA for like great things that the arbitrarily feckless refs, who call the game to pay their gambling debts let him get away with rape AND traveling? Pishaww, I say!

    He is in the pantheon of the all-star rapist in pro sports! Pick four rapists that got away with more….I bet you can’t. No, Kobe is OUR GENERATIONAL rapist, you sir, shall respect his sexual assaults and bite your cheek and allow himself his accolades of being a sportsball star. Or………you can continue to rage against the machine and keep on kicking his ass and let EVERYONE know that this isn’t just a Boston thing!

    The guy is a serial rapist and should be judged as such! For once, I ain’t the guy saying it. You wouldn’t be too surprised to know that in Boston, 1 in 1,000 even remember! This is your chance to be a good guy with a gun! Keep shooting!

    Like

Join in on the conversation!

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s